Self Image (Ladies)

It is fascinating to me how sensitive women are about their physical self image. I do know guys that are also very sensitive about their physical appearance but not to the extent of women. Case and point, I was seeing a girl who works out religiously. This girl was obsessed with her physical figure and she would work out rigorously. In my opinion, she had the best body of any woman I had ever messed around with. The only thing I didn't appreciate were her breast implants. She was a small slender girl and she decided to get a double D breast enlargement. I actually found her breast to be obnoxious but that may be because I am a ass man. To me, there is no such thing as a butt that is too big! Anyway one day I was sitting at home and Erykah Badu's new video came on "Window Seat." I asked my girl if she had seen the video and she said "No." I commented how I thought that Erykah had the best ass I had ever seen in my life. Again, let me remind you that I am far from sensitive but it is not like I say things with intent to hurt someone's feelings. My girl wanted to see the video so we go to youtube to watch it. My girl admittedly agreed that Mrs. Badu had a nice ass. The crazy part is later on that night when we are getting ready for bed, my girl asked how would I feel about her getting a butt implant! I started laughing until I realized she was serious. I could not believe what I was hearing. My body is far from ideal and my girl would salivate over the guys in the Twilight movies, she would talk about how they are so fine and they have great bodies. I was not effected one bit listening to her talk about them. I never thought about losing weight or hitting the gym because she found other guys attractive.I do not understand why women are so competitive with each other? Physical appearance is one thing and that comes and goes! Personality goes a lot farther in the long term, of course in the short term it is all about looks but if you want something substantial you must have a good mind and something to show for yourself! Treat your man like he is the center of life and listen to what he says and you will be fine. (Only men that are responsible and successful are worthy of this treatment)
Women need to understand that men are visual and physical creatures by nature and that is not always bad thing.

Here is the Erykah Badu video: