Women Should Understand!

Recently I was having a conversation with my uncle about settling down and getting married. I had opportunities in my past and present to marry various women. My uncle made a point to me about being married to my aunt, which by the way they have been married for 45 years. Even though they always fuss at each other over the dumbest things, they are still very much in love and they could not image life without each other. My uncle gave me some odd advice but after thinking about what he said, he totally made sense! He told me don't worry about the women that come and go because at the end of the day, the woman you are meant to be with will be there waiting because she will know that you are the right man for her. My uncle told me when he was dating my aunt he actually was in love with another woman that he thought he would had ultimately married. The woman that he thought he was destined to be with ended up leaving my uncle and a long story short my uncle ended up with my aunt. He said my aunt was always there for him and he knew that my aunt was in love with him but he just did not realize that she was his best option until other things happened in his life which made him realize she was always the best person for him. My aunt would even say, my uncle use to drive her crazy and make her want to kill him because of some of his behavior. She said that she knew that he would be a great husband and even more important a great father once they had kids.
I told my uncle and aunt that I get pressured by women to settle down but I don't feel like I am 100 percent ready for a full commitment with some women that have other issues. I was raised to value certain things like education, career, and goals. My aunt quickly chimed in and said, do not worry about any of the women that are giving you a hard time because at the end of the day you won't have a problem finding a good woman that will love to be a part of your life. Especially being a young black educated male with ambition, no kids, and a good career. Unfortunately there are not many black men that have a life like yours and these women recognize that so it is on them to compete and show you why they are the best person for you! I told them about some of the females that I have been talking to and my aunt said if you look at their lives it will tell you a lot about what type of woman you are getting! Life is all about competition and if you want the best things you have to work hard to get them, nothing great comes easy! Some women are fine with settling and just having enough and that is not the type of woman that I would want to start a life with. My aunt was telling me that she told her daughter to remember if you are attracted to him then there are probably 10 other women who are also attracted to him and they are probably willing to do what it takes to get him.
Some women need to understand where they are at in life and understand what they are bringing to the table. I can find any woman that will treat me like a king and satisfy my needs. I need a woman that has accomplished things in her own life and has a mentality of wanting and getting the best things in life. I have dated women and tried to impart that wisdom on their lives and they end up calling me verbally abusive.
This was not written to brag or make anybody feel bad but at the end of the day, anytime I approach a woman I automatically assume that 20 other guys have probably also approached her and ran game. I was always told that in order to get noticed I have to make sure I work on myself first and then when I go out and offer myself to somebody they will see that I am a cut above the rest. I think women are used to having guys approach them but that is solely based off of their looks. Guys by nature a visual and physical creatures so physical attraction can carry a relationship for a while but it won't last because true respect is built off of personality and lifestyle. I can truly say to all you women that you will never find a guy of any high status if you haven't nothing to offer besides good looks and some kind words. We do like a woman that is ambitious and has a direction in life which isn't based on only getting married and starting a family. Especially to the women that already have kids, it does not seem special to the guy if you have never done anything for yourself. The guy feels like he is only there because you want a father figure for your kids that you had with other men. Again if you find a guy that you think is great, then go hard and do what it takes to make him happy and comfortable. If you are not willing to put in the effort don't complain or make excuses just keep it moving. I am sure you will find a guy with no ambition who also likes a woman with no ambition or goals! A match made in heaven......

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